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If I'm part of the PDA, I don't mind so much :P
If I'm not, then it's a big "FUCK NO!"
PDA's? Somewhat okay - but there has to be a limit. I was going to say 'as long as no clothing is removed' but after reading the post, that really isn't going to work.... How bout - if you can do it in front of your parents, you can do it public. (Parents being like my parents.....meaning conservative....)
AWE: Okay, but now I'm left to wonder, "how much is too much?" I like to throw down with some PDA ... and, accordingly, Bro likes to tell me how utterly disgusting she thinks it is ( ... and, of course, I'm always like, "What?! I thought we were being modest.")
lala: Yeah, parents are different. When I was dating The Guy I Almost Married, my family wouldn't let us sleep in the same bed when we were in their house. His family, on the other hand, was Dutch. When we visited them, at night, he and I definitely did more than "share the bed".
My vote would be "Fuck No!". ;)
That post was hilarious though! I loved the Weekend at Bernie's picture.
Right. Rephrasing my answer a bit:
If I'm part of the PDA, I don't mind so much but no, even I have to say fuck no to crossing the line of cute/manageable to oh good, now we all know what they look like naked.
So I'm pro a little bit of PDA - holding hands, moderate kissing (the Parents Thing, like lala said), and anti-soppy PDAs.
Maybe a kiss or so. Unless I'm tipsy in which case it ends up being more than just one kiss (hangs head in shame)
BTW that PDA link is hillarious!
My first boyfriend was kind of into the mushy, soppy, lovey-dovey stuff, which is fine if you like that, but it's not for me. Plus he was into PDA (only a little, but too much for me...I had to tell him to stop it. Luckily he listened.)
So I'd have to say yes to maybe holding hands or a quick peck but otherwise, no. And if it's making everyone feel awkward, definitely no.
HELL YEAH!
I am commenting "under the influence" I hope you don't mind.
Hanuman1960: Yeah, NYC isn't for everyone. Even though *I* love living here, I can kind of see how & why people wouldn't love it.
Mel Chickk: Hey, hey ... you're only as old as you feel. And, yeah, the "Weekend at Bernie's" comment brought back memories. :) And isn't that guy's brother, the guy with the brown hair and beard a hottie?!?! :)
Carlos: PDA is the new black.
Stef: No prob. And, I totally got what you meant in your answer.
MamaChristy: I haven't tried dry humping in AGES. Just for shits and giggles, I might ask the next guy that I go out on a date with, "hey, just out of curiousity, when's the last time you dry humped someone?"
Darwin: Yeah, if I'm tipsy, all rules are off. Aside from ... you know ... public sex, nothing else is taboo. ;) And, yeah, that guy is HILARIOUS!! I randomly found him on Gawker.
kypris: But isn't "making everyone feel awkward" 1/2 the fun. ;)
Raymond: Oh, sweetie! Had a bit too much to drink, have you? I've been there. Earlier this week, I had the worst hangover in the world; I hadn't drank that much in a while!
Affectionate displays are ok, but over the top.... NO WAY...
This topic brings to mind the first date I had with From TX Gal: No Music of the Night and..... 1998
It went really well - we were having a "cute" PDA (nothing over the top) .... and some passer's by took it for granted that he was Proposing.... God I was embarassed -- so... I guess it's not shocker that that relationship did not turn out LOL
parnellpr: I love that guy's blog!! :) Yeah, I don't count "hand-holding" and "hugging" as PDA. On the other hand, tongue hockey & groping definitely count.
Anonymous: Yeah, drunken + bar + late night + making out = fun. That couple from that guy's blog? Sober + coffee shop + midday + dry humping = VERY VERY ODD!!!
Go get a room, noone wants to see your tongue rolling around in some girls throat. shoo shooo
"A quick smooch (even if it involves tougue), hang holding, and ass grabbing are all fine. Dry humping - Fuck no. Get a room!"
Couldn't have said it any better :)
Firefly: Mamachristy is wise beyond her years. I love that woman.
the original bro: The urge to merge??? LOVE IT!!!! :)
If they're not that cute it's hilarious, (which is all good)if the people are attractive it kind of turns me on (which is even better), and if I'm doing it...well, that's just one big HELL YES in my book. lol.
OK, onto the real issue. FUCK NO it's not OK! I mean, I'll peck/kiss my man or give him a pat on the ass as I'm walking away to use the bathroom, but the whole tongue action? And grindage? On a very PUBLIC couch (let's not even talk about the hygienic quotient)? Where I come from, that earns you a kick in the shin.
And, wow, it's looks like you guys are split between 1/3 who like PDA, 1/3 who don't, and 1/3 who like it in small dosages.