DISQUS

miss anon · 3 years ago

man, the multi-dating's a tough scene, i gotta admit. but in this social climate, it seems to be somewhat necessary ... albeit much too confusing if you really like ONE person and can't be with them the way you want to be.

*argh*

the only thing i say NOT to do, is go too far sexually with any of them, if there is more than one in your bed. just asking for trouble. i don't even agree with kissing more than one person, really. but hey, that's just me.

if you can, send Mr. Responsible an email - see how he fares to the truth. if he wants to continue hanging, then great. if not, no worries. it's fairly uncomfortable to hang with someone who likes you more than you like them - you often catch them gazing at you longing from the corner of your eye ...

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MamaChristy · 3 years ago

I defer to Miss Anon (and anyone else currently in the dating scene) as I'm a bit out of the loop on this one. But I will say this:

Why, oh WHY can't Boy #2 (btw, can we come up with a new nickname for him since he seems to be hanging around?) see how wonderful you are? What else is he looking for when you are smart, funny and brutally HOT? I will never get these big city men...

Mitch · 3 years ago

Hey hot stuff... because that's what you are if you are getting away with dating 3 men! Nice. Now I just need that kind of luck.

Personally, I'm a one horse pony. I seek to date 1 person at a time, and would rather put energy in one place instead of scattered around.

Play a little hard to get with Boy # 2. If he knows he can come back to you, he's going to play the field. Now, I only speak as a guy, but for some reason the dating world is starting to make more sense to me... strange isn't it?

Take care.

Berry · 3 years ago

I love your random footnote.

Berry · 3 years ago

OK, I want one of those drop down menus. Email meeeee.

stolie · 3 years ago

miss anon: Yeah, I know what you mean. It's tough; I'm not used to it. :-( And, I'm right there with you on the whole "don't go too far sexually with any of them." I have had NEITHER of the boys' penises / peni in my vajayjay. (I accepted an unforgettable, nude massage from Boy #2 on Valentine's Day, but that was before Hot NYPD Guy entered the picture.) At any rate, it's too soon to see where things are going with Mr. Responsible and, until/unless I enter into a committed relationship with Boy #2 or Hot NYPD Guy, the vajayjay gate remains closed to both. [Needless to say, if I *DO* start a relationship with one, the other will get the boot.] :)

MamaChristy: Thanks for the compliments, sweetie!!! :-) We'll see what happens with Boy #2. I'm not going to stick around waiting for him forever you know. Hence, I'm considering Hot NYPD Guy. (BTW, if Boy #2 sticks around for a longer amount of time, I'll have to think of a new nickname for him.)

Mitch: YAY!!! I love it when I have an opportunity to get a guy's perspective on dating. I don't understand men/boys at all; I always wished I had an older brother who would give me the scoop. But, yeah, I think I know what you mean. With Boy #2, maybe I need to play "hard to get" a little more. Right now, we see and talk to each other A LOT.

Berry: *mwah* I'm glad you like the menu!!! :-) Check your email; I just sent you the HTML code. Let me know if it doesn't make any sense.

Sid · 3 years ago

love the drop-down! genius.

And wow on the boysnack front! Well done by you. I don't know how you should handle any of this, but if you can get your new cop friend to give me the number of the hot redhead cop at my local station, I'd be really greatful, lol.

stolie · 3 years ago

Men in uniforms are hot! :)

lala · 3 years ago

It's too early to tell hot NYPD guy anything! Time is the bane of all us impatient people, but hang in there and you'll figure out what to do.

Oh and having brothers doesn't make men any easier to figure out. I have three of them and my dating track record is abysmal...

By the way - sorry to have been away for so long, but just wanted to say I was sorry to hear about you losing your job. Sounds like it wasn't the right one for you - and having the wrong job can be just so... defeating.. sometimes. Kudos to you for being able to call it quits.

Good luck with the job hunt. I'm sure you'll find something. Keep us posted on how it goes!

stolie · 3 years ago

My thoughts exactly: it's too early to tell hot NYPD guy anything.

Thanks for the good luck wishes for the jobsearch!! :) I'll definitely keep everyone posted.