You are a Good Girl, and I mean goooooood when you are bad.
Or, You are a Bad Girl and good at it.
Where were you when I was 25? Never mind, that was a different time.
Jay
· 3 years ago
It means you're a nice girl who's good in bed. And yes, that IS a good thing.
As for monogamy... ah, what a lovely concept - in theory.
Darwin
· 3 years ago
Bad at the 'good' stuff, i.e. abstinence before marriage, etc. You're not vanilla in other words.
Good at the 'bad' stuff, i.e. good in bed. Which is a good thing.
lala
· 3 years ago
I agree with awe - it means you're good in bed.
See - men seem to think that if you're a 'good girl' you don't know how to/want to give a blowjob. Why they dont' seem to get that you could wnt to both? They watch too much porn....
lala
· 3 years ago
Sorry - i meant 'want to do both'
Me typing + alcohol = messy....
goldennib
· 3 years ago
First, I disagree with Le Canadien's idea that you meet the man and then other things follow. I believe the exact opposite is true. You have exactly the relationships you are looking for despite what you may say you want. You have to decide in your heart what kind of relationship and person you want and then they both will miraculously appear.
Second, good girls who do bad (sexy) things are perfect. And I suspect you belong in this category.
missbhavens
· 3 years ago
I agree with the whole interpretation of what he meant. BUT I'm not pleased with the WAY it was said. It only proves that men have this whole "good/bad" thing in their heads all the time as the two catagories we chicks can fit into.
Stolie, in reality, you are your own catagory.
surly girl
· 3 years ago
bad girls rule. fact.
Tonito Bandito
· 3 years ago
Be good at everything you do, that's my mantra. Even if some of those things are considered "bad" sometimes. As long as you do the bad things good, all is well! Mwah!
MamaChristy
· 3 years ago
I really don't have anything to add except that I agree with what everyone has said. If you wanna relationship, find a guy who wants that too and don't spend time on the dudes like Le Canadien who, it appears, is really interesting in a fling... (not to say that he's looking to fling with you, it's just that he seems to fit a certian profile...)
Sid
· 3 years ago
I agree that you get what you want, deep down, and that it is ridiculous that women get boxed into good girl/bad girl categories.
Mam'selle Stolie, I think that if you really are ready for a committed relationship, you won't have any trouble finding suitable candidates, largely because you'll a) have plenty of candidates to begin with and b)will quickly discard anyone who doesn't seem to be interested in a serious relationship.
Mitch
· 3 years ago
I really can't disagree with anyone else's comments.
It's all about being presentable to the office party as a date/girlfriend.
At the same time, after the party, and behind closed doors, or just out for a night on the town, it means that you know how to have a good time.
My $.02
ps. Thanks for the good luck wishes. Tomorrow @ 3pm (6pm your time)!
Anhoni Patel
· 3 years ago
That's totally me. I'm a good girl in a bad way. It's a good girl who occasionaly does bad things but is essentially good inside.
Raymond
· 3 years ago
God is good.
The rest of us are an approximation.
And that needs to be okay.
stolie
· 3 years ago
AWE: 25? I'm not that young. :)
Jay: I think you're right to call monogamy a concept/theory given that it fails so many in practice.
Darwin: Vanilla? No. Chocolate? Yes. ;)
lala: This is true, a lot of men seem to think that. Though, I must admit, I tend to think the same ways about guys. If he's **too** sweet or cutesy, I assume he's probably lousy in bed.
goldennib: I tend to agree with you. In life, in general, I kinda of think that you have to envision the future (man, job, house, etc.) that you want and then follow the path in that leads in that direction. Without envisioning it, how do you know which way to go?
missbhavens: Awww! Thanks!!!! I like that: I am in my own category!! :)
surly girl: So, I guess this means you're a bad girl? :)
Tonito Bandito: Oooh, I like your mantra. I should write that on the white board on my fridge.
MamaChristy: Yeah, Le Canadian can be an ass from time to time.
Sid: Hmmm ... I don't know about the “plenty of candidates” stuff, but I'll write a post about that tomorrow.
Mitch: Got it. 6:00pm my time, I'll be sending “good luck wishes” your way.
Anhoni Patel: When it comes to boys, we might be cyber twins too!! :)
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Or,
You are a Bad Girl and good at it.
Where were you when I was 25? Never mind, that was a different time.
As for monogamy... ah, what a lovely concept - in theory.
Good at the 'bad' stuff, i.e. good in bed. Which is a good thing.
See - men seem to think that if you're a 'good girl' you don't know how to/want to give a blowjob. Why they dont' seem to get that you could wnt to both? They watch too much porn....
Me typing + alcohol = messy....
Second, good girls who do bad (sexy) things are perfect. And I suspect you belong in this category.
Stolie, in reality, you are your own catagory.
Mam'selle Stolie, I think that if you really are ready for a committed relationship, you won't have any trouble finding suitable candidates, largely because you'll a) have plenty of candidates to begin with and b)will quickly discard anyone who doesn't seem to be interested in a serious relationship.
It's all about being presentable to the office party as a date/girlfriend.
At the same time, after the party, and behind closed doors, or just out for a night on the town, it means that you know how to have a good time.
My $.02
ps. Thanks for the good luck wishes. Tomorrow @ 3pm (6pm your time)!
The rest of us are an approximation.
And that needs to be okay.
Jay: I think you're right to call monogamy a concept/theory given that it fails so many in practice.
Darwin: Vanilla? No. Chocolate? Yes. ;)
lala: This is true, a lot of men seem to think that. Though, I must admit, I tend to think the same ways about guys. If he's **too** sweet or cutesy, I assume he's probably lousy in bed.
goldennib: I tend to agree with you. In life, in general, I kinda of think that you have to envision the future (man, job, house, etc.) that you want and then follow the path in that leads in that direction. Without envisioning it, how do you know which way to go?
missbhavens: Awww! Thanks!!!! I like that: I am in my own category!! :)
surly girl: So, I guess this means you're a bad girl? :)
Tonito Bandito: Oooh, I like your mantra. I should write that on the white board on my fridge.
MamaChristy: Yeah, Le Canadian can be an ass from time to time.
Sid: Hmmm ... I don't know about the “plenty of candidates” stuff, but I'll write a post about that tomorrow.
Mitch: Got it. 6:00pm my time, I'll be sending “good luck wishes” your way.
Anhoni Patel: When it comes to boys, we might be cyber twins too!! :)
Raymond: Thanks, reverend. :)